What really keeps a relationship is not always, sometimes the best type of intimacy is where you just lay back, laugh together
at the stupidest things, hold each other, and enjoy each others’ company. (Kimberly Frampton Lefko)
*duo i know its really hard to get one
intimate friend, just escaped from it myself cause wasn't the free type , believe me its tough.
However, this generation has conceptualized a new era of sex: the hook up culture, where intimacy has taken a backseat.
I have a friend, who claims he has no time, for puppy love relationship, any opposite sex relationship to him most hit the the bed, for it to be real. "Well in a way I really don't blame him, here in Nigeria, girls always think they are clever".Therefore making an average Nigerian man, invent new rules.
Sex is now used as a true expression of love between two people. Of course, there are still tons of people who practice this way, but the casual nature of sex is an ever-present factor in today's culture.
Intimacy is more than just a physical connection. It comes from forming a deep connection with another person. It's about knowing their hopes, goals, fears and what makes them who they are.
In this type of relationship, sex and intimacy go hand-in-hand, as one builds the other.
People go out and have sex with people they just met that night and don't give it a second thought. They do it just to feel among, Maybe it's because we crave companionship, that we seek it out in any way we can get it. Although not the most long-term gratifying way, the immediate effects can sometimes be worth it — or so we tell ourselves.
The concept of “making love” is so far gone from our mentalities that a good number of people who engage in sexual activity do this for the pure sake of pleasure. This is completely fine, but sooner or later, this will catch up to you."am sure was going on in your mind now is.. See kentex oh!... But believe me its the plan truth.
The worst thing one can do is to start having casual sex with someone with no intention of falling for them, but before you know it, you actually do. If you choose to go about this, you need to make sure this is truly what you want. Be open and honest with the person you are involved with. (elite daily)
(you see this is where people fall victims of misunderstanding and heartbreak) Make sure you both are on the same page to avoid any sort of disappointment — adjust your expectations and make sure you are consistent in your actions. Do not equate sex with love; this is the downfall for many “friends with benefits” relationships.
Find someone you can be completely comfortable with outside of the bedroom. Good sex will only take you and your relationship so far. Sure, it may be a great aspect of it, but that is not what will allow the partnership to last and grow.
The word love shouldn't be used anymore but trust, "Do you trust me" and not "Do you love me" and as for sex let it be unintentional.
**Dedication to Miss Toks..
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