Bad types of friends that affects your Finances
Friends are
cool due, but what matters most is having the right ones. No need for the long
definition of who a friend is.
To me a friend
is your
second self or should I say your Image, “show me your friend and I will
tell you who you are’. Friend’s affects basically all that we do, say, think or
plan and this should be in a positive way and not the other way round. They influence
how we spend money.
About that,
here are bad friends that influence how our financial back bone dysfunctions.
The Rich
friends
I meant you can’t
go with friends of high taste and class without having a taste of the golden
apple. OK! Let’s do it this way imagine yourself strolling with your friend
Rex, Rex earns 500k everyday and you also earn that same amount monthly.
Do you see
yourself as his house-boy escorting him or as man-on-man outing; I know you
might say does it really matter, hey…. It really does a lot.
He takes his
vacation on space, doesn’t wear any clothes apart from the one designed for
him.
As much as
you badly what to feel among, your pocket says hello. It only results to living
a fake life and beyond your means therefore putting you at high risk for
debts.
The
Shopaholic
Wow…! There’s
ones are mostly found in female counterparts. Believe me when I say shopping is
there hobby. As your friends, they encourage you to do the same. They really can
make you borrow from the bank.
Can’t
imagine saying I need to save money, when having these pears around me.
The Vampires
I call them this
because; they feed on you like your some kind of blood host and when they are
done they live. This particular types are found in opposite sex relationship i.e.
girlfriend boyfriend kind.
She will
always ask questions like…
***How much
do you make?
***How much
does this cost?
***How much
did you spend?
It’s alright
to ask Questions, but what you earn and how much you spend is really none of
their business. So be careful with these friends they might save your contact
as maga.
Negative friends
These
friends are the main source of your financial break down; they always give good
negative advice on every financial decision you plant.
For example;
I want to save money
He would say
“what if you die now, who would have all that you’ve saved”.
I want to
invest …He says “hmm… you haven’t even finished school and you thinking this far.”
When sowing
a financial seed for oneself, you need to surround yourself with people having
the same vision, and a negative friend isn’t one.
The bragging
friends
At a time it
has an advantage, that’s if you’re the quiet type because you can get tips from
what they brag about.
These
friends always make you what to make you inferior therefore making you spend
above your income just to show off or feel among like the “rich friends”.
They are
really bad for ones finances, believe me they turn friendships into a
competition and this doesn’t help your bank account.
1 comments:
you forgot the fucked up friends.
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