What makes a man

credit: Dre-J

What are the characteristics that makes a Real Man.

wow... this is a big one, hmm... 

Well here goes, being a Man simply means taking 'charge', that is taken charge of verturally everything that is within your reach or sight.

Many might define a Man as one who is
physically fit, one who very active in bed, one who treats a woman well, one who is self confident, and the worst i get from ladies is "a man is someone who can take care of himself and myself and the one who will always be with me%#@!&*......  hello! ladies if his always there for you, his not even close to a BOY.

what am simply trying to let you understand, is this Yes i agree to all these definitions but then these are what every human been need to have, and not only a Man.

A man must know himself,  

for a man to achieve all that is expected of him, he must regard himself greater than his is. -Johann Wolfgang

This is knowing, he was created by a GOD.

before you call yourself a man, first check your scale in His presence. like even before God call Adam man the was in His presences.

A man must know Pain

 The human body is by nature caused to run from pain and therefore adapts, i.e accommodating change. (*remember change is constant)

this pain can be in your work place, pain from heart break, and the pain from knowing whom you are and applying change.

A man must not Give in/up

 Everyone i understand must be forged, just as gold. As a man this is where you should NOT give in/up at most you will break(i.e the Pain) and then call on God(i.e knowing yourself).

A man has fears and should not give in to it.

 A man must Manage

Why should you ask for more when you cant even manage the little you have. That was the first reason God created a Man, to manage his creation.   A man must know how to manage in every aspect of his life, manage his home, his friends, his wife, his work and himself.

All these are what makes a MAN, other definitions and characteristics are goals of being a MAN, be it being humble, having self-esteem, making you feel like the only woman in the world, having money, power or knowing how to lead as a leader. ALL THESE ARE GOALS OF A MAN.

And these Goals falls under these.